The best kind of silence to take us into the holiday season

csmonitor-logoI’m thrilled to share with everyone that our Toronto-based silent book club, held monthly at PRESS books. coffee. vinyl, is included in a lovely feature in the international news publication The Christian Science Monitor. Congratulations to all who have made this club such a success, in person and online. Enjoy the article here.


Did I mention that the night before a silent book club meeting, it feels like Christmas Eve? How wonderful then to be packing my book bag this month in the light of our little Christmas tree.

How wonderful, too, to have a group of reading friends who concur that the holidays aren’t always wonder and joy … and so we’ve agreed to pencil in an interim silent book club meeting between Christmas and New Year’s, as a companionable sanctuary amidst the demands of the season.

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Thank you, Press on the Danforth, for having our table set up and extra scones awaiting as we all arrived, eager to spread our books out on the table and start sharing them. That sharing has evolved from the engaging discussions about we’re reading to, almost as a matter of course now, a passing of books across the table to the next eager reader. In just over a year, such trust has developed that if someone from silent book club had recommended it, we’re all willing to roam beyond our reading comfort zones and try new things.

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What follows, as always, is this month’s list of the books we read and discussed at our silent book club. Each title is presented and discussed within the group with readers’ capsule positive, negative or mixed – always refreshingly constructive – reviews. (We segued briefly in today’s discussions into the drive-by, non-constructive book “reviews” often encountered via Goodreads.) Our list as I present it here has no rating system, just a link to either publisher information or generally positive reviews or informational pieces. The list is not inherently a list of recommendations, just a record of what we discussed. Still, I think it’s a pretty diverse and intriguing selection that might spark the interest of anyone keeping up with our club.

One book club member’s reading choice for this month – A Book of Silence by Sara Maitland – was inspired by some lovely book club cross-pollination. In addition to promoting our silent book club meetings on social media, I’d recently tweeted about Literary North’s Slow Book Club, one of our silent book club members saw my tweets and she signed up for that club’s thoughtful consideration of a book per season. I’m joining, too, with their first reading choice for the new year, and am very much looking forward to this complement to our monthly silent book club. (Slow Book Club, you might see a few more sign-ups from Toronto in the near future!)

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A couple of meetings ago, one of our silent book club members mentioned that for her 70th birthday, she was asking everyone to share with her the gift of stories and storytelling. She had an excellent and generous response to her request, and she is now gradually posting the story gifts she received on her blog. Take a look at jofacilitator.ca/.

At the end of today’s silent book club gathering, the other readers indulged my request to read aloud a poem from my recent reading that I found particularly striking and moving – “Migration” from The Mobius Strip Club of Grief by Bianca Stone. We’ve decided that at our next get-together, everyone will be given the opportunity to share a poetry or prose excerpt. It is so gratifying and heartening to see how our group and what we share has evolved.

As always, you can enjoy our previous silent book club meeting reports and book lists here.

If you’re interested in starting your own silent book club or are in the Toronto area and perhaps interested in checking ours out, please feel free to contact me for more information.

Finally, I just want to offer my gratitude for our silent book club’s special sense of community and, in its way, almost a type of gentle worship that I know has seen me through a somewhat trying year. I hope what almost palpably radiates from our quiet, bookish gatherings takes us all (those who assemble around the coffee/bookstore table, and those following along with us and/or building their own groups of readers) into a new year filled with every kind of happiness, bolstered by the books that buoy us and bring us together.

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