Riffing off each other’s reading

Our silent book club group’s collected reading, which we regularly share here, is not just lists of titles, author’s name, publishing information, reviews – although they’re still mighty fine lists we hope everyone is sparked by, inspired by and enjoys.

In its tidy, alphabetical arrangement, the list cannot convey all the intriguing interminglings and intertwined intimacies that our conversations lend it, but oh, they are there. That is the alchemy of our books, our readers and our wonderful interactions. Today’s meeting was no exception. One reader’s update flowed to the next reader’s, and recurring themes and connections emerged. Zoom might have its shortcomings, but it’s easy to see when everyone is smiling – some smiles tinged with surprise and unexpected realization – and nodding in agreement.

In that intoxicating conversational flow from book to book, from book experience to book experience, from insight to insight, here are some of the flashes that glinted off the waves.

  • As instructive and empowering as reading a respected book on how to make a marriage thrive, is coupling that with a comforting reread of Pride and Prejudice. In fact, don’t Elizabeth and Darcy offer an interesting model for constructive or productive fighting, perhaps?
  • One book club member observed that she’d ending reading a lot of romance and relationship books of late. Even more satisfying than how many of those books concluded, she remarked “I love watching relationships develop.”
  • Another member commented on how she slogged through but did not ultimately savour a book with an unlikeable main character. Isn’t it interesting, though, how we might appreciate the writer’s craft in creating an authentically unappealing or unsympathetic, but that same craft might alienate us from the book?
  • Revisiting books from our past can be a comforting return to old friends and familiar words. It can be a revelation, as we see and learn new things absorbing the same words at different ages, from different life vantage points. It can also be fraught, as words and how they are used are now interpreted differently, through different social, historical or other lenses. Breaking Bread with the Dead: A Reader’s Guide to a More Tranquil Mind by Alan Jacobs posits some challenging approaches to books from other eras, whether or not they are part of our personal past reading.
  • Reading aloud to a loved one is like your own personalized audiobook, isn’t it?

Delta the corgi poses with Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

Silent book club member Vicki, getting ready for our zoom meeting, with her stack of books next to the computer

As I note with every report, our latest combined book list gathers the recent reading of many of our members, whether or not they attended the meeting. The titles featured in each of our reports combine print and digital versions of books, along with audiobooks (which are indicated separately, with narrator/performer information where possible). Any title on any of our group’s lists means that at least one (often more) readers have given that title some consideration. That is enough, to my mind, to say that another reader reading our reports and lists might consider it, too. Is that an out-and-out recommendation? Not necessarily, but it means a title has been given attention and thought, which always counts for a lot.

Here are some additional book-related articles, resources, news, recommendations and more. These items and tidbits are often companions to books on the list, or are inspired or offered by our members and/or come up during our discussions and chat.

Our previous reports and book lists are always available to inform, delight and inspire … right here.

You can also check out links to articles, interviews and more here – some with San Francisco-based Silent Book Club founders Guinevere de La Mare and Laura Gluhanich, and some with us here in east end Toronto.

Learn more about silent book clubs via Guinevere and Laura’s Silent Book Club web site. You can find information on meetings happening around the world and close to where you live. Some clubs are currently on hiatus or modified schedules, many are running virtual meetings in different formats, and some are carefully running in-person gatherings again. Please feel free to contact me for more information about our club and its offerings.

Wishing you reading that flows and riffs and ripples from one entrancing experience to the next …

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