Welcoming every reader and every book

Our silent book club group welcomes every reader and everything every reader reads and shares with the group. I’ve said this outright and heaven knows it is a strong current running through all our discussions, meetings and reports.

That is not to say that our conversations are blandly diplomatic and devoid of critical perspective. On the contrary, over the almost four years our group has been in existent, our members have become very comfortable not just with sharing wonderful reading experiences, but with being very candid about less-than-satisfactory experiences with particular works.

While the first rule of Silent Book Club is definitely *not* that we do not speak of Silent Book Club … what happens in our conversations seems to largely stay in silent book club, which is decidedly special. Even when the conversation gets lively, shall we say, there is always an abiding respect for other readers and their preferences, for authors, for publishers, for performers (such as those who narrate audiobooks, for example) and more.

Jenn and Sven's books on a shelf

Sue R hiding behind a book

Philippa's 1960 Cookery Book

Vicki on screen, getting reading for the zoom silent book club meeting, with her books stacked next to her computer

Jo's shady reading spot in her backyard

Catherine reading in the park

Sue reading in the park

What then is the meaning of the book lists we present with our meeting reports?

Empirically, they list alphabetically by author surname all of the recent reading of many of our members, whether they are in attendance or not. (Many members kindly provide their monthly reading lists, whether they are able to attend a meeting or not.) The titles featured in each of our reports combine print and digital versions of books, along with audiobooks (which are indicated separately, with narrator/performer information where possible).

Qualitatively, the lists do not indicate what each reader had to say about a given title. But during our meetings, our readers might praise and recommend a work, might recommend it with caveats or reservations, or might firmly reject a work – but only for them, not necessarily for others. So, nothing is condemned outright (although some reviews can be pretty, ahem, vehement), but might be presented with, well, cautions attached.

Minus our group’s cumulative, ongoing commentary and the special alchemy of our interactions and earned trust of each other’s opinions, adding words of criticism or praise here have no fair context. Does that make sense? And doesn’t that confirm that the secret sauce here is the book lists and information coupled with the chemistry of our fellow readers?

Objectively, any title on any of our group’s lists means that at least one (often more) readers have given that title some consideration – and that is enough, to my mind, to say that another reader reading our reports and lists might consider it, too.

Here’s the latest!

Our previous silent book club reports (for online and in-person meetings) and book lists are always available for you to enjoy and get some reading inspiration right here.

You can also check out links to articles, interviews and more here – some with San Francisco-based Silent Book Club founders Guinevere de La Mare and Laura Gluhanich, and some with us here in east end Toronto.

Learn more about silent book clubs via Guinevere and Laura’s Silent Book Club web site. You can find information on meetings happening around the world and close to where you live. Some clubs are currently on hiatus or modified schedules, many are running virtual meetings in different formats, and some are re-emerging carefully with in-person gatherings. Please feel free to contact me for more information about our club and its offerings.

Wishing everyone happy reading … and the chance to discuss that reading – happy or not – with other readers.

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