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“DNFs give me FOMO,” said a wise silent book club friend

Something sticks with me for days, weeks, months after each silent book club meeting – online or in person. They range from positive to cautionary book reviews, to readers connecting with shared enthusiasms and discoveries, to witticisms like the title of this blog post, especially brilliant coming from my well-read companions. (Another great one: “that book is not forgotten, just un-remembered” …)

Sometimes it’s a particularly sparkling light, and sometimes it’s a general and wonderful glow, as I’ve remarked on before. As the days and nights have grown darker again, books and book-lovers will be essential to warming and lighting the way!

Silent book club member Vicki (that's me, with my signature messy hair and glasses), on screen getting ready for our zoom meeting, with books stacked next to my computer, including works by Sally Rooney, Olga Tokarczuk, Rachel Cusk, Billy Collins and more

Silent book club meeting at the East Toronto Coffee Co, with the group's book selections spread out on the table along with beverages and pastries. The books include works by Sally Rooney, Stanley Tucci, Jason Heroux, Thomas Pynchon + more

Silent book club meeting at the East Toronto Coffee Co, with some of the group's book selections spread out on the table along with beverages and pastries. The books include works by Sally Rooney, Stanley Tucci, + more

Silent book club meeting at the East Toronto Coffee Co, with some of the group's book selections spread out on the table along with beverages and pastries. The books include works by Carol Off, Elizabeth RenzeETCC merchtti, Tea Obreht, Mary L. Trump + more

Silent book club members gathered, reading silently, at a table at East Toronto Coffee Co. Afternoon light streaks across book pages ...

Let us hasten to that which fuels us! Every title on our group’s generous lists means that at least one (but usually more) readers have given that title thoughtful consideration. That doesn’t mean that every work on our lists is expressly recommended, of course. Inclusion on this list always means that our readers have devoted time and attention to a title – and that, dear readers, means a lot.


Here are some extra book-related articles, resources, news and recommendations, items and tidbits that are often companions to books on the list, or are inspired or offered by our members and/or come up during our discussions and chat.

  • Why are authors doing this? Have we lost trust in readers? – Here is some fascinating food for thought on how much writer do or do not, and should or should not, explain things to readers. This might be a topic coming soon to a book club pop-up discussion meeting near us …!
  • One of our book club members shared these two sites for eclectic euro-centric films, some of which were adaptations of some of his recent reading: easterneuropeanmovies.com and sovietmoviesonline.com.
  • Many of our book club members also take part in other book clubs. One of our new members is also part of a traditional, everyone-reads-the-same-book club that is now welcoming its second generation of participants. Here’s the story about the group’s founding generation.
  • And oh, in case you missed it … yes, we’re that book club from TV!

Our group’s previous reports and book lists are right here!

You can also check out links to articles, interviews and more here – some with San Francisco-based Silent Book Club founders Guinevere de La Mare and Laura Gluhanich, and some with us here in east end Toronto.

Learn more about the worldwide phenomenon of silent book clubs via Guinevere and Laura’s Silent Book Club web site. In fall 2023, they welcomed their 500th chapter … and with continuing and astonishing momentum, they are now boasting over 1,500 chapters!!! (There were around 60 chapters when we joined as the first Toronto chapter in 2017.) You can find information on meetings happening around the world and close to where you live. Every club is a different size, format (in-person, virtual or combinations) and vibe, so contact a club’s organizers beforehand if you have any questions or preferences. Please feel free to contact me for more information about our club and its offerings.

May your reading keep you cozy and satisfied till next we meet!